What does 12:12 mean spiritually?

I remember the first time I noticed 12:12 and I realized it was all about one way thinking. One way relationships, and I realized that I know more about this due to my mediumship.

The first thing or time should I say where I knew that 12:12 is something was when I was stood in my kitchen the other day with the kettle boiling, and I looked at the clock. 12:12. I didn’t think much of it. Then the next day, same thing. Then the day after. Then I woke up in the middle of the night, grabbed my phone to check the time, 12:12. I told my mate about it and she laughed at me, and said I was being mental. Then it happened when we were together. She went quiet after that.

The thing with 12:12 is it's the middle of everything. Noon. Midnight. The hinge. I was going through a divorce when it started showing up constantly. Not at the beginning when everything was dramatic. Not at the end when it was done. Right in the middle when I didn't know which way it was going to go. When I had to choose but kept pretending I didn't.

What does 12:12 actually mean?

Right so if you add 1+2+1+2 you get 6. And 6 is home and family and love and all that. The foundations stuff, but what I've noticed doing this work for 27 years is that 12:12 is about balance. Look at it. 12 and 12. Mirror image. Same on both sides. And most of us aren't balanced are we. We're giving too much or taking too much or working too hard or not hard enough. Something's always off.

I was the person who gave too much. In everything. Relationships, friendships, work etc. I was always the one organising things, checking in on people, remembering birthdays, making sure everyone was alright. And I thought that made me a good person but actually I was just terrified of being left. I thought if I stopped being useful people would go. 12:12 showed up when I was deep in that. And I ignored it for ages because I didn't want to see what it was showing me. That I was really tired, that I was giving everything and getting not much back. That I called it love but really it was just me trying to earn something I should've had anyway. I hope that kind of makes sense. If you think about it 12:12 is almost in the middle with a 22 angel number thrown in against two ones. It means one sided. One sided relationships.

What does 12:12 pm mean?

I know in terms of my meaning above, it also means morning's done, afternoon hasn't really started. It means you are right at the peak. I notice 12:12 on the clock… when I'm putting something off. When I've started a thing and then stalled out because the next bit is hard or scary or I've lost interest. Like I'll be faffing around the house avoiding emails or whatever and I'll check my phone. Then bang…12:12. And I think yeah alright, you've made your point. I'm procrastinating. It's not some big cosmic message usually. It's more like a poke. You're halfway through something. Get on with it or admit you don't want to finish it.

Midnight's different, I think it has a different meaning as it is quieter, even weirder. Everyone's asleep and you're lying there with whatever thoughts come out when there's no distractions left. I see 12:12 am when something's bothering me that I haven't properly looked at yet. Something I've been pushing down all day that floats back up at night. If you keep waking up at 12:12 or catching it before you fall asleep, I'd ask yourself what you're not thinking about during the day. What are you avoiding? What do you already know but haven't admitted? The answers usually aren't fun. But they're usually true.

What does 12:12 mean for love?

This is where it gets uncomfortable. I think 12:12 is about situationships, ghosting and one sided relationships (as I have said before). I was in a relationship once where I did everything. All the emotional work. All the planning, all the noticing when things were wrong and trying to fix them. He just sort of... was there. Existing. Letting me run around.

And I told myself that was fine. That I was just better at that stuff. That he loved me really, he just showed it differently. And, 12:12 kept appearing and I kept ignoring it because I didn't want to look at the mirror. I didn't want to see that the scales were completely off. That I was pouring and pouring into something that wasn't pouring anything back.

If you're seeing 12:12 and you're in a relationship, have a proper look at it. Is it balanced? Actually balanced? Not balanced because you've decided that doing everything is just who you are. But actually two people showing up equally. If the answer's no then that's probably what 12:12 is trying to show you.

What does 12:12 mean if you're single?

Maybe you're getting ready for something more equal than what you've had before. I spent years picking people who couldn't show up properly. Then wondering why I was always exhausted. Then picking the same type again because at least it was familiar. And, 12:12 started showing up when that pattern was breaking. When I was finally tired enough to want something different. Not perfect. Just balanced. Someone who'd meet me in the middle instead of letting me do all the walking. If you're single and seeing 12:12 everywhere, maybe something in you is shifting. Maybe you're done with the unbalanced stuff. Maybe you're ready for the mirror to show you something better.

What does 12:12 mean for twin flames?

Twin flames make sense here, given the one sided run and chase stuff that twin flames is power. Twin flames show you yourself. The good bits and the bits you've shoved in a cupboard hoping no one would find them. I had a connection like that once. We'd talk and I'd realise we had the same wounds. The same fears. The same stupid ways of protecting ourselves that weren't actually protecting anything. It wasn't comfortable. It was like looking in a mirror and going oh god, I do that too. 12:12 with twin flames is about being willing to see what's being reflected. Even when it's not pretty. Even when you'd rather look away.

What does 12:12 mean in the bible?

12 is everywhere in scripture. 12 tribes. 12 apostles. 12 gates in the New Jerusalem. It's God's organisational number basically. There's a verse in Luke 12:12 that I think about sometimes. It says the Holy Spirit will teach you what to say when you need to say it. You don't have to know everything now. When the moment comes you'll know. I find that comforting when I'm stuck in the middle of something and can't see the way out. That maybe I don't need to figure it all out right now. Maybe when I get there I'll know what to do. Easier said than done obviously. But it helps.

What's the folklore around 12:12?

Midnight was always the witching hour. The spooky time. When the veil between worlds gets thin and stuff can cross over. Noon is sacred sun at its highest. Includes not just maximum light and nothing hidden. If you think about it, 12:12 sits right next to both. The middle of the day. People have always felt something about those moments I think. We just didn't have digital clocks showing us the numbers before.

What does 12:12 mean for work?

It means you're probably in the middle of something. Not the exciting beginning bit. Not the relief of finishing. The slog in the middle where you can't see the end and you're not sure if it's worth it anymore. I see 12:12 around work when people are at a crossroads they don't want to admit to. The job that was supposed to be temporary but became five years. The career that made sense at 25 but doesn't fit now. The thing they fell into and never properly chose. 12:12 asks: is this still yours? Or are you just going through the motions because you don't know what else to do?

What does 12:12 mean for money?

Balance again isn't it, are you holding on too tight because you're scared it'll disappear? Or letting it slip through because you don't think you deserve to have it? Most money stuff isn't really about money. It's about worth. About whether you believe good things are allowed to stay with you. 12:12 might be asking you to look at that. At whatever's underneath the money stuff. At what you actually believe about yourself and what you're allowed to have.

What should you do when you see 12:12?

Honestly? Just notice it. Notice what you were thinking about when you saw it. Notice what's been on your mind today. Notice what you've been avoiding or stuck in or pretending is fine when it isn't.

12:12 is a mirror. It shows you stuff. Your job is to actually look instead of glancing away and carrying on like nothing happened. I don't make wishes at 12:12. I ask myself questions instead. What's in the middle right now? What needs balancing? What am I pretending isn't happening? The answers aren't always comfortable. But they're usually the ones I needed to hear.